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		<title>A Memorial to the Victims of Communism</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barbara Kay</dc:creator>
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<p><strong>[This article is reprinted from the <a href="http://www.nationalpost.com/">National Post</a>]</strong></p>
<p>In 1968, naive anti-establishment American and Canadian students considered  themselves courageous for locking supine university presidents in their offices,  throwing computers out of windows and even burning out-of-favour academics’  research work. They knew that in the free, indulgent West, their childish parody  of a revolution would result in nothing more than a suspension from their  studies.</p>
<p>In the same year truly courageous Moscow academic <a href="http://frontpagemag.com/2010/03/11/remembering-a-dissident/">Yuri Glazo</a>v signed the  famous “letter of the twelve,” protesting illegal arrests and trials of  dissidents, knowing full well that this real act of revolution would result in a  suspension of his human rights.</p>
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<p>Glazov was predictably fired, meaning he was henceforth unemployable and  deemed a “parasite” on the state. Warned by a friend, he narrowly avoided  imprisonment on a trumped-up narcotics-dealing charge. Finally, through a stroke  of luck, Glazov came with his family to the West, and in 1975 took up residence  in Halifax as chair of the Russian Studies department at Dalhousie University, a  position he held until shortly before his death in 1998.</p>
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<p><strong>[Yuri Glazov's family shortly before departure from Russia. From left to right: son Greg, Yuri, daughter Elena, wife Marina and son Jamie.]</strong></p>
<p>An outstanding Canadian, Glazov deserves recognition, and so do many other  brave dissidents for whom Canada has been a refuge. Nine million Canadians —  that’s almost a third of us according to the 2006 census — came to these shores  from communist-ruled countries. Many are now dead or very old. Their descendants  deserve to see their sacrifices acknowledged and Canadians exposed to the full  panoply of communist atrocities.</p>
<p>Prospects for educating Canadians about the human toll exacted by communism  through their stories will brighten when a long-sought Ottawa Memorial to the  Victims of Totalitarian Communism is completed, a project singled out for  endorsement in the recent Throne Speech.</p>
<p>This memorial isn’t just a good idea, like an also-promised national  Holocaust memorial, it is a necessary idea.</p>
<p>The exhaustively researched Holocaust is in no danger of being forgotten. The  highest term of opprobrium in Western culture, whether from leftists or  rightists (rightly or wrongly) is “Nazi,” not “communist.” That’s not because  Nazis and communists have been compared and Nazis found to be worse. It’s  because people don’t know how bad communism was and is.</p>
<p>In 2006 the Swedish Ministry of Education initiated programs teaching the  crimes of communism because a poll had revealed only 10% of Swedish youth could  identify the Gulag. Canadian youth would not fare better. All educated Canadians  associate the word “Auschwitz” with “genocide.” The equally horrific “Holodomor”  is more likely to draw a blank stare.</p>
<p>Why has communism escaped the moral condemnation Nazism attracts in such  exuberant degree? In recent years several scholars have addressed the question  and provided a litany of reasons, amongst them:</p>
<p>z  Stalin was a war ally and therefore escaped the postwar censure he  deserved;</p>
<p>z  Only since the fall of the Berlin Wall has the most damaging data emerged;  by then witnesses were aging and focused on economic priorities;</p>
<p>z  There was no Nuremburg, no Truth and Reconciliation moment for communism  as there was for other genocidal regimes;</p>
<p>z  Communist propaganda machines are extremely efficient at positive branding  (Trudeau bought in; his fawning patronage of Fidel Castro was beyond  contemptible).</p>
<p>But all reasons pale beside the glaring failure of left-wing intellectuals to  admit — and to teach — that communism isn’t simply an unfortunate contingency of  socialist passion but an ideology as immoral and implacably ruthless and  dramatically consequential as Nazism.</p>
<p>Actually it is more than intellectuals’ failure, which suggests passivity; it  was, and is, active avoidance. Yuri Glazov was proud to become a Canadian  citizen, but was shocked and chagrined at the ignorance and even denial of  communism’s crimes he found amongst his fellow academics. As his son Jamie  Glazov noted in his 2009 book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/United-Hate-Romance-Tyranny-Terror/dp/1935071076">United in Hate: the Left’s Romance with Tyranny  and Terror</a>, “[W]hile we were cherishing our newfound freedom, we encountered &#8230;  intellectuals in the universities who hated my parents for the story they had to  tell &#8230;”</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Left-wing intellectuals’ laundering of the truth about communism has  translated into a vast lacuna in the teaching of 20th century history in our  schools — one we can only hope the new memorial will help to fill.</p>
<p>The word “memorial” is somewhat misleading, though, suggesting that communism  is a closed historical chapter. The fall of the Berlin Wall notwithstanding,  communism in one guise or another still determines the fate of millions of  hapless people around the globe. Victims in communist regimes are still starved,  imprisoned, tortured and denied the most basic of human rights.</p>
<p>“Centre”? “Testament”? It is not too late to find a word to remind  communism’s ongoing victims that right-thinking Canadians know the truth and  will not abandon them.</p>
<p><strong>To learn more about Yuri Glazov and the Yuri Glazov Memorial Award, <a href="http://frontpagemag.com/2010/03/11/remembering-a-dissident/">click here.</a></strong></p>
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		<title>Sarah’s Story &#8211; by Barbara Kay</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Dec 2009 05:06:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Barbara Kay</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[David Horowitz's heartbreaking tribute to his late daughter Sarah.]]></description>
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<p>There is        one subject no writer in the world, even the most talented and eclectic,        would hope to have as a book project, and that is the death of his own        child.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Cracking-Heart-David-Horowitz/dp/1596981032/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1260746203&amp;sr=1-1"><em>A        Cracking of the Heart</em></a> by former Marxist, but        long-time conservative public intellectual and best-selling author David        Horowitz, takes as its starting point the moment he was informed that        “something terrible has happened.” The police had discovered the body of        Horowitz’s 44-year old daughter Sarah, alone in her apartment, when she        failed to show up for her job at a school teaching autistic children.</p>
<p>The book’s        title refers to the process of atonement associated with the Jewish high        holy days. For in addition to natural grief, the shock of his daughter’s        death opened a floodgate of remorse:<em> “I should have spent more time        with you when there was time to spend. I should have told you how much I        love you, or told you more often. I should have been less contentious when        we had our disputes.”</em></p>
<p>Mere days        before dying, Sarah, for whom literature and writing were foremost amongst        her cultural passions, had been interviewed for a literary website on the        subject of life and death. Horowitz recalls the intensity with which he        studied the dialogue. “Her thoughts were guiding me towards the future, as        though she were my parent rather than hers.” In particular he was struck        by a lesson Sarah took to heart from her rabbi, an important spiritual        mentor and second father in her life: “Pay attention to the ways in which        your relationship continues.”</p>
<p>These two        thoughts – “as though she were my parent” and “the ways in which your        relationship continues” -are the inspiration and guiding themes for the        rest of the book. <em>A Cracking of the Heart</em> is not so much the story of        Sarah, but the story of a relationship, imperfect in life, that has not        been cut short by her death. And, through his explorations of Sarah’s        past, her friendships and work and activities and beliefs, Horowitz        experiences a posthumous spiritual reversal of their filial        roles.</p>
<p>Sarah        Horowitz’s life is a study in deliberately hidden heroism. She was born        with a condition called Turner’s Syndrome, caused by missing cells in one        of her two X chromosomes. This resulted in a litany of afflictions that        governed her corporal existence, but never her mind or spirit.</p>
<p>Sarah was        extremely short, with a wide and webbed neck and a low hairline. She was        infertile. She had high blood pressure due to a kinked aorta (a medical        indicator for early death). She was near-sighted and hard of hearing;        eventually she became almost deaf as a result of deformed eustachian        tubes, which meant frequent ear infections. She also suffered from        diminished spatial perception and a propensity to get lost easily. Even        reduced mobility was painful due to an arthritic hip.</p>
<p>None of        these disabilities deterred her from walking two miles to synagogue and        home on Shabbat in fair weather and foul, from making her way across town        to cook and serve meals to the homeless, or from traversing oceans and        enduring physical hardship in remote and primitive communities. Bivouacked        in a Ugandan mud hut, she taught school to impoverished children of the        Abayudayu tribe of African Jews; desperately dehydrated in the slums of        Mumbai, she gave aid and comfort to sexually abused Hindu girls.</p>
<p>Determined        to live autonomously, Sarah eked out a frugal existence through menial        jobs, ate excruciatingly boring, but cheap vegetarian meals and settled        for the meagre delights of free neighbourhood entertainment.</p>
<p>Determined        as well to fulfil her educational ambitions – and refusing all financial        help (after her death Horowitz found an uncashed $500 cheque he had sent        to ease her Spartan existence) – she managed to earn two Masters degrees,        one in fine arts and one in special needs education for children, all the        while holding down a menial 8-hour a day job, and spending hours shuttling        to classes on three different buses each way at night.</p>
<p>Included        in the book is the eulogy Horowitz delivered at the funeral (it was posted        on the Internet and garnered warm feedback), which he wrote through a        “hail of tears.” He describes Sarah as an unusually temperate and        undemanding child: “I don’t ever remember losing my temper with her.”        Once, he recalls, in an absurd bid to educate her childish palate,        Horowitz urged her to choose a sour-apple flavoured ice cream instead of        her preferred staples. An obedient child, she acquiesced at once. Only        fifteen minutes later did he notice that she was not eating the ice cream.        He tasted it. It was terrible, but “In all the time that had elapsed she        had uttered no word of reproach, and she never did.”</p>
<p>She showed        early promise as a writer, and Horowitz cites with pride her greatest        public success, a ground-breaking article on hermaphrodites whose gender        was arbitrarily chosen for them by surgeons. In one of the passages from        her writing Horowitz includes, she says of one of her subjects: “I can’t        get this woman out of my head though. It is the irrevocability that haunts        me. What was done to her cannot be undone. Private pleasure has been        sacrificed for public normalcy.” Hermaphrodites’ pitiable condition – a        genetic accident leaving them stranded between one defining identity and        another – obviously struck a resonant chord with someone who was herself a        victim of physical and intellectual inheritance realities that held a        mirror up to her limitations rather than her achievements.</p>
<p>In a way,        although she was clearly talented and deeply intelligent, as several        included nuanced and polished examples of her prose and poetry attest, it        was unfortunate for a young woman already so disadvantaged to take up her        formidably credentialed and prolific father’s craft, virtually        guaranteeing herself additional torment on that account.</p>
<p>Horowitz        is a seasoned and combative professional polemicist who, motivated by        ambition for political influence and worldly success, writes powerfully        and fast. Sarah was a self-effacing, pacifistic amateur writer who,        motivated by the need for aesthetic self-expression and her father’s        approval, wrote delicately and slow. Her writing inevitably became the        locus of unresolved emotional and psychological contentions between them        that had nothing to do with writing.</p>
<p>Horowitz        recounts a telling moment in their “collegial” relationship. Sarah had        sent him a dozen pages of a novel she was writing. He was pleased by the        quality of her prose. His mind leaped ahead to publication, leading to a        teaching post perhaps or a secure literary job that would include health        benefits, a continuing anxiety for him on Sarah’s behalf, and with reason,        given her multiple fragilities. So instead of being content with praising        her writing – his validation was what she’d hoped for in sending the pages        – he asked her how long it would take to finish the novel, emphasizing the        need for a professional writer to get “product” on the market. “You write        well,” Horowitz said, fatally adding, “but you need to write        faster.”</p>
<p>Reliving        the morbid silence with which his “helpful” advice was greeted, Horowitz        takes full responsibility for the estrangement that followed it: “Now that        so many years have gone by and it is too late to retrieve my words, I        realize how far removed from her reality they were.”</p>
<p>Another        teaching moment came during a family dinner at an        East        Bay        restaurant when Sarah was in her early twenties. The conversation had        turned to political themes. Even though he knew Sarah was an active        peacenik, Horowitz admits to indulging in “near ferocious” indignation at        the anti-war movement which, he believed, gave comfort to        America’s enemies and undermined democracies.</p>
<p>Giving        free rein to his passion, Horowitz reports he was at first oblivious to        the effect of his rant on Sarah, who had remained silent. “But all of a        sudden her features came into my view with an excruciating clarity. I saw        that her eyes had grown red and liquid, and her face was convulsed as        though an immense weight was pressing inexorably down on her. Her        expression in that instant was one of such mute and irremediable suffering        that the distress of it has never left me.”</p>
<p>Overcome        with remorse, Horowitz wondered to himself, “Who is this angry person?        What sort of individual could do this to his child?” From that day on, “I        never did another thing to reduce her to tears or inflict such pain. Yet I        cannot forget that I did.”</p>
<p>As both        anecdotes imply, while her father’s reality was political, public and        aggressively ideological, Sarah’s “reality” was essentially spiritual,        private and task-oriented. During her last decade, it was her commitment        to the disciplines and rituals and social justice causes of a synagogue        community led by a charismatic rabbi trained in eastern mysticism that led        to inner peace and transcendance of her physical trammels.</p>
<p>In Sarah’s        writings and in conversations with her friends, Horowitz discovered some        happy surprises amidst reminders of his mistakes. Although chary of saying        so, Sarah appreciated who and what her father was, and the training in        coherent thinking he had gifted her with. Thus, even though she        instinctively leaned toward leftist causes, she could not be bamboozled by        mindless political correctness. She says in one of her essays, “This habit        of arguing both sides of issues is a legacy from my father&#8230;” Elsewhere        she writes that Horowitz’s early Marxism and later embitterment “left me        with a twofold legacy. I have always felt driven to pursue justice, but am        wary of ideology and partisan politics.”</p>
<p>In the        hands of a sentimentalist or a lesser writer, <em>A Cracking of the        Heart</em> could have been a maudlin exercise in hagiography and        self-flagellation. Instead, it is a loving tribute and a profound        meditation, with universal appeal, on the bond Horowitz and his daughter        shared in their common passion to effect “tikkun olam” – to repair the        world. They disagreed about the ways in which such a redemption might be        accomplished, but they were as one in believing that making the world a        better place was something which one had to do with all one’s heart, with        all one’s soul and with all one’s might. Sarah did what she could – a        great deal – in the straitened circumstances that were her portion. Part        of what she achieved was to help her father become a better man. The        relationship continues.</p>
<p>Jews say        of the departed, “May her memory be for a blessing.” Sarah Horowitz’s        “blessing” is this book. Read it, and your heart will crack a little too.</p>
<p><strong>[To order <em>A Cracking of the Heart</em>, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Cracking-Heart-David-Horowitz/dp/1596981032/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1260746203&amp;sr=1-1">click here</a>]</strong></p>
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